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2 Samuel-13

Broken Trust: A Devotional Study on 2 Samuel 13​

Introduction​

The narrative in 2 Samuel 13 is a heartbreaking tale of betrayal and broken trust. Amidst the story of scandal and sin, we find truths that deeply resonate in our own lives. As we delve into this chapter, may we reflect on the importance of preserving trust and restoring relationships.

Section 1: The Fragile Nature of Trust (2 Samuel 13:1-2)​

Devotional Thought: At the outset of this chapter, Amnon grows sullen because he falls in love with his half-sister, Tamar. Though relationships are fragile, trust lies at the heart of all bonds. We must recognize how quickly trust can be breached and shattered. In any relationship, it is our responsibility to preserve and safeguard trust.

Reflection Questions:

  • In what relationships do you value trust the most?
  • What steps can you take to preserve and protect trust within those relationships?

Section 2: Broken Trust (2 Samuel 13:3-14)​

Devotional Thought: Amnon devises a deceitful plan to win Tamar's affection. In his quest for Tamar's love, Amnon abandons the bounds of decency and violates the trust between two siblings. Trust shattered, a rift develops between Amnon and Tamar.

Reflection Questions:

  • In what ways have you experienced broken trust in relationships?
  • What steps can you take to address and repair broken trust?

Section 3: Restoring Trust (2 Samuel 13:15-22)​

Devotional Thought: In the aftermath of Amnon's treacherous act, Tamar demands her brother Absalom to avenge the wrongs committed against her. Though Absalom heeds his sister's words, he doesn't want to partake in the violence. Absalom shelters Tamar to protect her from Amnon's rage. In this episode, we see the importance of restoring broken trust through protecting the trust and dignity of others.

Reflection Questions:

  • How can we restore trust when wrongs have been committed?
  • What steps can you take to honor and uphold the trust and dignity of others in restoring relationships?

Section 4: The Impact of Broken Trust (2 Samuel 13:23-32)​

Devotional Thought: In the aftermath of the affair, Absalom leaves Jerusalem and rebuilds his life in Gilead. Time passes, but anger and vengeance still brews within Absalom's heart. Trust once lost, has long-lasting impact. Though the rift between Amnon and Absalom seems unrecoverable, David pleads with Absalom to return to Jerusalem.

Reflection Questions:

  • How do we come to terms with the long-lasting impact of broken trust?
  • What steps can we take to address the lasting impact of broken trust in relationships?

Section 5: The Culmination of Broken Trust (2 Samuel 13:33-39)​

Devotional Thought: Absalom's love for his sister, Tamar never wanes, but he also longs for justice and righteousness. David, now in old age, cedes his throne to Solomon. Absalom's desire for the throne grows intense. The intricate web of broken trust grips the hearts of those aggrieved. In this chapter, we see that the effects of broken trust reach far and wide.

Reflection Questions:

  • How do we navigate the complex web of broken trust in our relationships?
  • What steps can we take to address the aftermath of broken trust?

Conclusion:​

As we conclude our devotional study on 2 Samuel 13, may we remember that trust forms the bedrock of relationships. Entrusted bonds, both broken and preserved, profoundly impact us all. May we strive to preserve and protect trust in our relationships, deepen our understanding of justice and righteousness, and work towards restoring broken trust. In doing so, we can approach the complex web of broken trust with wisdom and grace.